The Sims 4 Formative Moments Guide
The addition of Sims 4 Formative Moments is a fun one, letting your sim’s childhood have an impact on their future.
Formative moments were added to the game with The Sims 4: Adventure Awaits and give you so many fun challenges to play around with.
How to Get Formative Moments
There are a few ways you can get formative moments to play through. The first way is through gameplay, sometimes you’ll see “start XYZ challenge” on items and clicking that will start the formative moment for your sim.

The next way is to click on your sim and choose take on formative challenge. This will add an option for you to play through in the formative moments section.

There are a few that can be started by clicking on a bookcase and choosing find lost scrapbook. You’ll get the three “follow in their footsteps” formative moments from this.

There are also a few that are situation dependent. For one, you’ll need to have your sim have the Kleptomaniac trait and for another you need to have someone close to your sim die.
Formative Moment Walk-Throughs
There are 50 formative moments to play through with different tasks and fun reward traits. I’ve done a walk-through for each of them so you can see exactly how to complete the tasks!

Be a Caregiver
This formative moment has your sim wanting to be the favourite sim of a baby in their household!

Be a Completionist
This formative moment has your sim going to find Buddy Scoop in Gibbi Point so you can win and trade collectables.

Be a Good Student
This one has your sim wanting to get an A in school and do their homework so they can get good grades.

Be a Horse Kid
This formative moment requires Horse Ranch to be installed. It has your sim wanting to get to know horses and become friends with one too.

Be a Pet Friend
This one requires you to have Cats & Dogs installed and has your sim building friendships and playing with cats or dogs.

Be a Rogue
This formative moment requires your sim to have the Kleptomaniac trait and has them stealing items from other sim’s homes.

Be a Star
This one requires you to have Get Famous installed. Your sim will join the drama club and record themselves on a drone.

Be a Survivalist
This formative moment has your sim wanting to cook outside on a fire and make things like hot dogs and marshmallows.

Be a Traveler
This one is about your sim wanting to see as much of the world as possible and travel to different areas.

Be Active
This formative moment is about having your sim do things that help them gain the motor skill like playing on the monkey bars.

Be an Amateur Photographer
This formative moment requires your sim to take photos of sims and then sell them to publications.

Be an Aspiring Author
This one is about getting inspired to write your first book as a child, and read books that you purchase too!

Be an Entertainer
This formative moment is about entertaining others by telling them stories and have them watch your sim play on an instrument.

Be an Enthusiast
This one is about learning what you like when it comes to music, games, and books.

Be an Outdoor Enthusiast
This formative moment is about doing fun tasks outside like gardening, swimming and beachcombing.

Be Annoying
We all know an annoying kid and this formative moment lets that be your sim. You’ll need to prank both people and objects.

Be Away From Home
This formative moment requires your sim to go on a getaway and spend at least 8 hours there away from their home.

Be Comfortable in Water
This formative moment is about getting comfortable in a pool and learning how to dive with the diving skill.

Be Crafty
This formative moment is all about paper craft and your sim will make pieces and then gift them to others.

Be Disciplined
This formative moments has your sim gaining confidence, doing sit ups and taking care of chores.

Be Entrepreneurial
For this formative moment your sim will need to earn 1,000 simoleons in any way they can.

Be Inquisitive About Cuisine
This formative moment has your sim wanting to try new foods from all sorts of food stalls in different worlds!

Be Inquisitive About Health
For this formative moment you need Parenthood installed. Your sim will play around with the doctor set and make health potions on the science table.

Be Inquisitive About Science
This formative moment has your sim making science potions and looking for items like metals and fossils out in nature.

Be Inquisitive About Technology
This formative moment requires you to have Discover University installed. Your sim will learn about computers and robotics.

Be Investigative
This formative moment has your sim taking photos of sims and snooping around in their trash for secrets.

Be Rebellious
This formative moment requires you to have Parenthood installed and your sim will need to break curfew on three separate days.

Be The Best Friend
This formative moment is about being the best friend you can be. You’ll give compliments and gifts to people you love.

Be Useful
This one is all about cleaning up after yourself and your sim will need to do 10 chores like taking out the trash.

Care for the Environment
This formative moment requires Eco Lifestyle and has your sim wanting to be nice to the environment. You’ll dive for deals and take care of insects.

Encounter Death
This formative moment requires someone in your sim’s life to pass away before you get it. The whole thing is about understanding death so they can be okay.

Establish an Image
This formative moment is about figuring out what you like and what you like to wear so you can create a vibe.

Explore Nature
This formative moment has your sim wanting to find cool things in nature like butterflies, metals and more.

Explore the Ocean
This one has your sim going swimming and kayaking in the ocean so they can become comfortable.

Feed Yourself
This formative moment requires your sim to start learning how to cook so they can take care of themselves.

Follow in Their Footsteps (Music)
This formative moment is found from a scrapbook and has your sim wanting to learn new music and planning their outfits.

Follow in Their Footsteps (Painting)
This one has your sim wanting to draw four pictures on the activity table. They were inspired by a scrapbook they found.

Follow in Their Footsteps (Swimming)
Your sim was inspired by a scrapbook they found and want to swim for four hours to be just like the people in the book.

Form Bonds Away From Home
This formative moment requires your sim to go on a kid’s getaway and make friends with others.

Future Politician
This formative moment is all about meeting people and getting more confident and charismatic.

Gather With Others
This formative moment requires Get Together and has your sim starting and growing a club with friends.

Have a Best Friend Imaginary Friend
This formative moment is all about becoming best friends with an imaginary friend.

Learn From The Past
This formative moment has your sim wanting to connect with a ghost and become friends with them.

Live Dangerously
This formative moment requires your sim to eat spoiled food and go outside in extreme heat or cold. You’ll need Seasons installed!

Master Archery
This formative moment requires your sim to challenge others to archery contests and gain the skill so they can upgrade their bow.

Master Fishing
This one has your sim needing to catch 5 rare fish which can take a while but is so fun!

Nurture Plants
This formative moment requires your sim to start gardening and grow and harvest plants all on their own.

Share Sibling Adventures
This formative moment has your sim wanting to spend time with their sibling by watching TV and playing games together.

Show Morbid Curiosity
This requires The Sims 4: Life & Death and has your sim wanting to learn about death and cemeteries.

Think of Others
This one has your sim needing to be nice to others doing tasks like feeding pets and volunteering.
Giving Adults Formative Moments
If you didn’t play with your sim as a child you have ways to add formative moments to them after the fact. You’ll click on your sim and choose recall a lost formative moment.

When you do this a menu will appear where you can see all of the formative moment traits and you can choose one that will benefit your sim.

The other way to do this is to purchase them with satisfaction points from the reward store for 100 points each.
