The Sims 4 Paragon Partner Aspiration
The sims 4 paragon partner aspiration is all about practicing polyamory in a healthy and beautiful way.
This aspiration comes with The Sims 4: Lovestruck and your sims will need to focus on healthy boundaries and satisfaction!
Alluring Bonus Trait
When a sim starts with a romance aspiration (like the soulmate aspiration) they’ll be given the alluring bonus trait. This trait makes these sims have more successful romantic interactions with sims!
Best Traits for The Sims 4 Paragon Partner Aspiration
When you have a sim working through an aspiration you’ll want smart traits to make it easier. Here’s some traits that can help with this aspiration:
- Romantic: Sims who have this trait are going to get flirty moodlets more often which are useful for love.
- Lovebug: When sims have this trait they’ll love romance and fall in love easily!
- Outgoing: Sims who are outgoing will have more fun when chatting with other sims.
- Beguiling: This is a reward store trait you can purchase and you can use this to make another sim feel flirty whenever you want.
You can also add some great lot traits to your sim’s household to make it even easier to have romantic connections:
- Romantic Aura: This trait comes with The Sims 4: City Living and it will give a boost to romantic interactions with other sims.
- Singles Hangout: This trait comes with Lovestruck and will make single sims hangout around this lot so your sim can find partners without ruining other sim’s lives.
Stages of the Aspiration
There is actually only one stage for this aspiration! That means it’s easy to finish which is great, and as you finish your sim will get some satisfaction points to spend.
Stage One: Paragon Partner
The very first thing you need to do for this aspiration is to ask another sim about romantic boundaries. You can find this under the relationships menu under learn more and it will say ask about romantic boundaries.
When you click this you’ll get a notification telling you what you need to know about the other sim’s boundaries. It will tell you what will make them jealous if you were to do things with other sims!
If it says they’re open to reconsidering you can always talk to them about it later and try and get them to be more open.
- Have 2 or More Partners
For the next part of this aspiration your sim will need to have two or more partners at the same time. There are two ways you can become romantic partners with another sim. Sometimes when you get a high level of romance and friendship the other sim may ask you to become romantic partners!
When this happens you’ll get an action card to either agree to it or so not right now, so obviously for this part of the aspiration click become romantic partners.
Your other option is to ask another sim to be your romantic partner and take it into your own hands. When you reach around 50% romance with another sim you’ll start seeing this pop up in the initial menu.
You can find it under the relationship category in the social menu and it says ask to be romantic partner.
You’ll need to do this to at least two different sims to make this part of the aspiration be complete.
- Have 2 or More Very Satisfied Relationships
The hardest task in this aspiration is to have 2 or more very satisfied relationships. This is not impossible though, you just need to customize it for each individual partner because everyone has different feelings on romance.
To learn about your partner’s satisfaction you can click on them at any time and go to relationship > learn more > ask about romantic satisfaction. This will let you know how they are feeling at that moment!
At any time you can click on your partner and open their profile to see their turn ons and offs, their boundaries and attraction and their romantic satisfaction.
My two partners in this were Zoe Patel and J Huntington III. They were completely different. J wanted my sim to do tons of physically intimacy interactions and loved woohoo while Zoe didn’t like physical intimacy and they didn’t woohoo once to get to very satisfied.
To get the relationship with Zoe to be very satisfied I did romance interactions that didn’t involve touching. This included things like ask risqué question, sexy pose, and flirting. When you do the right interaction you’ll see a little icon in green by the sim with a heart inside a heart and a plus sign showing you that you’re increasing satisfaction.
To get the relationship with J to very satisfied my sim did all sorts of physical intimacy. This included a lot of woohoo, some embraces and lots of kissing. The two relationships were so different.
When you reach very satisfied you’ll get a notification letting you know and when it happens your relationship with increase over time without you doing romance interactions which is awesome.
- Go on 3 Dates with a Partner Sim
After you have a sim who is your romantic partner you’ll want to show them love by taking them on dates. Easy! You can ask sims out on dates at any time in one of two ways.
The first way is to click on your sim’s phone and under the social category you’ll find ask out on date and you can pick the sim and the location.
The other option is under the romantic category where you can either ask them on a date or ask them to sett up a date. Any of these interactions will work! You just need to go on three different dates with a sim who is your partner, doesn’t need to be the same sim over and over.
Affection Aficionado Reward Trait
When your sim finishes the sims 4 paragon partner aspiration they’ll get the affection aficionado reward trait. The description on this trait says “Affection aficionado sims have slower romantic satisfaction loss in relationships with other sims.”
This is a really nice trait to have for long-term relationships because your sims will be happy in their relationships easier than others.
